I agree, everyone could benefit or improve their lives from the Top 5 list. But it's also a known fact 92% of all New Years resolutions fail.
Lets start with a). unrealistic or non-specific goals. And, we'll use resolution #4 (as an example) which seems to be the number 1 New Years resolution on most peoples list. Lose weight. How much weight? By what date? How are you going to lose the weight? Starve? Exercise? Eating Healthy? Combination of eating healthy & exercising? Ok, so you need to make a measurable goal. How about losing 1 lb. per week for 20 weeks. Or, I want to lose 10 lbs. by my wedding. That's good, that's definable/measurable. How are you going to do it? By eating healthy and exercising. Good. Now, what's your motivation for meeting that goal? You want to be healthy? You want to look good? Ok, good. Now, the biggest impediment to meeting that goal is- what's your motivation? Do you have a wedding? Do you have a special event? Is that enough motivation? Do you have enough self-control throughout the dieting and exercising period to stay on track to meet the goal? Do you have a support group? That is why 92% of New Years resolutions fail. People have the "desire" but they don't have the "motivation" or "self-control". If you don't have the desire AND the motivation and self-control, it's never going to happen.
I saw a great movie last night (true story), that I've seen probably a half-dozen times before, with Robert DeNiro and Cuba Gooding Jr. called, "Men of Honor". In the movie, Cuba Gooding Jr. wants to become the first Black Master Diver in the US Navy. That's his goal, his desire in life. Robert DeNiro, who was the Master Chief running the Master Diver program for the US Navy asked Cuba Gooding Jr., "why do you want to be a Master Diver so much Cookie?". (Cookies are newbie divers.) Cuba Gooding Jr. responded, "I always wanted to be a Master Diver sir...and because they said I couldn't do it". So, Cuba Gooding Jr. had the desire and he had the motivation..and guess what? He became a master diver despite being black and having his leg amputated.
So, before you make your New Years resolutions for 2018, don't think so much about the resolution goal, think more about how you're going to have enough desire, motivation and self-control to stay the course and meet that goal.
Good Luck in 2018 and Happy New Year. Power ON! Coach Rob
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